Theta Mom Rocks

How excited and honored am I? Extremely. Very. Jumping up and down with joy! When I saw Heather’s e-mail in my inbox with the title “TMC feature blog post”, I couldn’t open it fast enough. Of course I didn’t have to think twice about accepting this honor. Heather has created an amazing community over at Theta Mom. One that is open, honest, and “authentic”. Her message is loud and clear: we are in this journey of motherhood together and yet there is no one “right” way to do it. I could not agree more. She pretty much had me at “Life isn’t perfect and neither are our kids”.

So, thank you for visiting me and please read my post over at Theta Mom today. It explains how I got started on my blogging journey and why I will continue on in it.

Here are some of my favorite posts thus far, highlighting the fact that this journey through motherhood really does take us on some long and winding roads.

The Accidental Co-Sleeper

Breastfeeding Broke my Heart

The Remaining Pieces

Dealing with Your Daily Dose of Mommy Guilt

Crazy Soccer Mom

The Beauty of a Girl

The Picky Eaters Club

We are all Doctor Moms

Thank you Heather. I am so glad to have “met” you and I’m truly grateful for this honor.

52 Responses to Theta Mom Rocks
  1. Theta Mom
    November 12, 2010 | 5:09 am

    Melissa,

    Isn't it funny how you "meet" people and you feel as if you've known them for a long time but never really "met" in real life? Well, you are certainly one of those bloggers! I connected with you and your writing once I visited your blog. YOU are such a Theta Mom – one who accepts all moms for who they are because they are MOMS in the trenches of motherhood. You are authentic on your blog and always raise excellent points and perspectives on topics that impact all of us on this journey.

    Keep writing mama! You are going to be in this bloggy world for a long time. I sure hope many peeps come to visit to see what an incredible blogger you are!!

    Happy Friday!
    xo

  2. Kasey
    November 12, 2010 | 5:17 am

    Happy feature day!!!

    I just read your breastfeeding post. I was one of those mom's who just couldn't breastfeed. I reached out to the lactation consultants and nurses at the hospital who kept assuring me that my milk would come in but there was enough for my newborn. After a day or so, my daughter would just cry so I finally broke down and gave her formula. The lactation specialist was so irritated with me! I supplemented with formula and tried to keep nursing and pumping but, like you, the most I ever pumped was 1.5 oz. I felt so guilty and judged too but at the end of the day I know I am a good mom and this was just something I had no control over. My lactation consultation told me I didn't give it enough time and everyone is capable of breastfeeding. So, it's comforting to know that there may be a medical reason.

    Sorry for such a long comment! It just hit close to home!

  3. confused homemaker
    November 12, 2010 | 5:32 am

    I'm so glad to see you as the featured blogger today!! YAY!! I hope this is a great day & lots of people get the chance to find you :)

  4. Amanda
    November 12, 2010 | 6:01 am

    Congrats on your Theta Mom day! I read your breastfeeding and soccer mom posts and I LOVE your blog! Following you now on Twitter and your blog.

  5. Leanne
    November 12, 2010 | 6:09 am

    CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! How super duper exciting! Wow!!! Of COURSE she thinks your fabulous … it's oh-so true!

  6. Liz
    November 12, 2010 | 6:16 am

    Woo hoo! I LOVE when someone I know is chosen! Have a fun day!

  7. Jackie
    November 12, 2010 | 6:20 am

    Congratulations on being the featured blogger on TMC today!!!

    My favorite thing about blogging and Twitter is "meeting" people and building friendships.

    Since I started in May I've met a lot of great people and built friendships that I love!

  8. Sarah
    November 12, 2010 | 6:33 am

    Wonderful blog. I really related to your post about your heart breaking over not being able to breast feed like you had hoped. I went through the same thing and had the exact same problem. I had never even heard of this problem until I was told that I had Insufficient Tissue. It was quite a blow and something that like you, I have struggled to come to terms with. Thank you for writing so beautifully about this topic.

  9. My 5 Monkeys(Julie)
    November 12, 2010 | 7:12 am

    congrats and we should really meet in Real life. Just saying

  10. Moomser
    November 12, 2010 | 7:14 am

    Hi, visiting from TMC. I just read your breastfeeding post and cried (literally, my husband thinks I'm a little nuts)it amazes me how many women have a hard time with breastfeeding, for whatever reason. One of the first posts I wrote was about my experience (or inexperience!) because it's a subject that resonates with so many women. I'm off to check out the rest of your blog. So glad to have found you! Yara

  11. Grace @ Arms Wide Open
    November 12, 2010 | 7:17 am

    congrats from a TMC member! Look forward to checking out some of your posts that you chose!

  12. Moomser
    November 12, 2010 | 7:17 am

    Sorry, me again, debated whether I could/should add a link to my post on breastfeeding and decided to: http://moomserbaby.blogspot.com/2010/10/breastfeeding-is-fing-hard.html
    but if it bothers you, I totally understand if you remove this. Thanks!

  13. Elizabeth Flora Ross
    November 12, 2010 | 7:27 am

    I don't know which I love more: when one of my favorite people is featured by Theta Mom, or meeting all the great new ones through her. But today I am really excited to see you featured! Way to go!

    I'm glad you included your breastfeeding post. I see several people have already commented how much it resonated with them. I did breastfeed successfully, but I have a lot of friends who struggled and simply could not and were heartbroken. I hated seeing them go through that. And I REALLY hate when other women attack those who do not breastfeed. It is NOT a given that a mom can do it. There are many, many reasons why it does not always work. Thank you for being brave enough to share your story.

  14. Elizabeth Flora Ross
    November 12, 2010 | 7:28 am

    Oh, and in case that didn't come through, I meant that YOU are one of my favorites! 😉

  15. Vivian
    November 12, 2010 | 7:32 am

    You are definitely an awesome featured blogger who I can really relate to. I'm a medical student myself (either wanting to be an OB/GYN or a Pediatrician) and I have a 6 year old & another baby on the way! Your blog looks very nice & it's just funny how both our blogs begin with "Confessions of a" =)

    Following you now and can't wait to read your future posts! Please come visit me when you have the chance =)

    http://vi3ti3abe.blogspot.com

  16. Loukia
    November 12, 2010 | 8:15 am

    So great to meet you – love discovering new fabulous blogs! xo

  17. Jill
    November 12, 2010 | 8:21 am

    Congrats on being TMC's featured blogger!! I love your blog & have enjoyed getting to know you better through OurMommyhood too. :)

  18. Amy
    November 12, 2010 | 8:44 am

    I was so excited to see your blog being featured. I love your blog…I hardly ever get a chance to comment (life is busy!), but I do read you. It's always fun when a blog you "know" is featured!

  19. The Girl Next Door Grows Up
    November 12, 2010 | 8:46 am

    Congratulations on being the Theta Mom's Featured Blogger!!! You have an excellent writing style so I hope a lot of people find you today :-)

  20. Amy
    November 12, 2010 | 8:47 am

    I just realized that, even though I read you, I wasn't officially following you…I am now! : )

  21. flyrish
    November 12, 2010 | 8:50 am

    Congratulations, Melissa! I got all giddy when I saw that you were the featured Theta Mom blogger today. I was like, I "know" her! It's well-deserved.

  22. Lori @ In Pursuit of Martha Points
    November 12, 2010 | 8:58 am

    Congratulations! Yay!

    You are much much deserving!

  23. Lady Jennie
    November 12, 2010 | 9:06 am

    Congratulations! I'm clicking over now.

  24. JadeLD
    November 12, 2010 | 9:20 am

    Congratulations on being the featured blogger! It sounds like you have a similar attitude to Theta Mom. It's really insightful reading about your experiences when I don't have kids but would like to someday. Maybe by reading such honest and truthful blog I can be better prepared! I can always hope!

    Have a lovely day,
    Jade

  25. Booyah's Momma
    November 12, 2010 | 9:51 am

    What an awesome way to end out the week! Hooray for you… enjoy your day!

  26. Cheryl D.
    November 12, 2010 | 10:06 am

    I had no idea! Congrats on being TMC!

    I love all the posts you listed, but you left out one of my favorites–the one on vaccinations. That's the post where I discovered you (and been a devoted follower ever since–and blogging buddy, of course!).

    Enjoy your day!

  27. Tatted Mom
    November 12, 2010 | 10:11 am

    Congrats on being TMC's Featured Blogger. Your blog is amazing, and I'm glad Theta Mom chose to share it with us!

  28. Jaime
    November 12, 2010 | 11:12 am

    Congrats on being TMC's Featured Blogger!

    I was already following your blog, but *gasp* haven't kept current (with over 10 unread posts). I'm going to catch up on those today :)

  29. Momma J
    November 12, 2010 | 11:15 am

    It's amazing how blog cruising can be so much fun. I started following you a while back on my Google reader. It was really great to see you on TMC featured blogger. Keep up the great work, and I look forward to reading more!

  30. Mrs.Mayhem
    November 12, 2010 | 11:26 am

    How exciting! Congrats!

  31. Rebekah C
    November 12, 2010 | 11:27 am

    *subscribing*

    Your posts about co-sleeping and breastfeeding were beautiful. Thank you for sharing!

  32. JDaniel4's Mom
    November 12, 2010 | 12:17 pm

    I was so excited to see you were the featured blogger. Congrats!

  33. Fire Life
    November 12, 2010 | 12:37 pm

    What a fantastic opportunity. I am so happy to have found you through Theta. Since I had my first baby nearly 13 years ago- I truly felt that there wasn't anyone else out there like me. FINALLY – through blogs like yours & Theta- I know I am not alone.

  34. MommyToTwoBoys
    November 12, 2010 | 12:49 pm

    Oh yea! I love Dr. Mom. She has helped me with more than a few issues since I met her.

    Congrats on your feature day! Very, very well deserved.

  35. Figments of a Mom
    November 12, 2010 | 1:19 pm

    Congrats on your featured day! I love Heather at Theta Mom, she always has the best featured blogs! And your's is no different. I can't wait to read more.

  36. Betsy at Zen-Mama
    November 12, 2010 | 1:42 pm

    Congrats on being featured today Melissa! I'll check out the posts I haven't read yet! I'm happy for you!!

  37. Galit Breen (Minnesota Mamaleh)
    November 12, 2010 | 1:52 pm

    happy theta day to you! your site absolutely screams *authentic!* love. it! :)

  38. Melinda
    November 12, 2010 | 2:41 pm

    Squeal! I'm so happy for you!! Couldn't have happened to a nicer mama! ;0)

  39. TheBabyMammaChronicles
    November 12, 2010 | 4:18 pm

    Happy feature day! So well deserved! I always love learning from you or just hearing your perspective on things!

  40. Kristi @ Creative Kristi
    November 12, 2010 | 6:30 pm

    Happy TMC Feature Day!! YAY YAY!!
    Just read and commented on your breastfeeding post! Girl you are a WONDERFUL mother & ROCK ON for writing that!! People need to not be so judgmental!!

  41. angela
    November 12, 2010 | 6:52 pm

    Congrats on being featured! I found your blog through Theta Mom and am excited to read more. I loved your post on the remaining pieces of your little girl's babyhood. Have a great weekend!

  42. Julia
    November 12, 2010 | 7:10 pm

    yay for being featured!! i know i just met you recently, but what a great way to re-connect!!!! hope your day was awesome!!

  43. Mommy Needs a Vacation
    November 12, 2010 | 8:33 pm

    Yay!! Congrats on being featured with Theta Mom today! You so deserve it! Sorry I am getting over here so late today- it has been one of *those* days!

  44. The Empress
    November 12, 2010 | 11:10 pm

    Hey, hey and how awesome is this?

    Congrats, and it was lovely to see your name up in lights at ThetaMom.

    Whoda thunk this 6 months ago? Hmmm…

    way to go, Idaho..

  45. Wickless in Seattle
    November 13, 2010 | 3:15 am

    Congratulations!! I'm a new follower.

  46. Erinsgobragh
    November 13, 2010 | 7:41 am

    Too cute girl! Congratulations!

  47. Allison @ Alli 'n Son
    November 13, 2010 | 10:49 am

    It's so nice to meet your! I love finding new blogs through Theta Mom. She does rock!

  48. Ameena
    November 13, 2010 | 10:53 am

    Congratulations on being a featured blogger! You absolutely deserve it because your writing and knowledge are both wonderful.

  49. Making It Work Mom
    November 13, 2010 | 9:48 pm

    Congratulations on your big day! Well Deserved!

  50. Gigi
    November 14, 2010 | 9:26 am

    Congrats on your featured day!!! Couldn't happen to a nicer person :)

  51. Heligirl
    November 14, 2010 | 12:42 pm

    I'm so psyched to see you're featured on TMC. You so deserve it. Thanks again for all the support you've given me since we met on the 31DBBB. I've loved following you and getting to know you. I can't wait for Ask Dr. Mom!

  52. Joey @ Big Teeth and Clouds
    November 14, 2010 | 6:55 pm

    Congratulations! That out to be a big traffic boost!